Screw you.
I know you might think that this has nothing to do with me and I should just keep out of the way. Well, think again. Think about how after everything you did, you still have all your important parts and basically, you're still alive. Did you notice that? Well, that's me getting out of the way. Comprende?
Just to give you a piece of my mind and a bit of unsolicited advise, hear me out. The thing is, I did my best to like you for her sake. Hell, I even tried walking on eggshells around you just so she won't feel embarassed. But still, you ended up being a huge disappointment. A very, very huge disappointment. You are probably thinking that I don't know you well enough to have the right to judge you. So in a way, I've decided to just address this generally to all of the "Wounded Guys" out there.
Here's the thing. There's nothing wrong with looking for the perfect girl. The one who will fit you in all of the right places. The one who will accept you for who you are and will fill in whatever you are lacking. Your so-called missing piece. The problem is, you know what you're looking for but have you ever wondered what they could be looking for? I know you're probably thinking, "She's the right one if she'll accept me for who I am and she would never want to change me." That's good. Because that's what really love should be. Accepting the person for who s/he is no matter what. But, this accepting thing, it should work both ways, and not just for one person's benefit. So before you start getting into a relationship, look at yourself in the mirror first and think "Is this the kind of person that I'd be willing to accept? Is this the best that I could offer?"
Hold your horses though before you get wild. What I mean here is that you don't have to be perfect because all of us have our own flaws. It's good if you are aware of them, but that'll never be enough. You should do something about it and not just rely on the other person's acceptance because, admit it or not, if you see these same flaws that you have on other people, I'm quite sure you wouldn't be able to stand it too. Before you demand something from someone, think deep. Ask yourself, "Would I also be able to give it if the other person demands the same thing from me?" Seriously, for a guy who claims that the girl he's dating is acting immaturely, look at yourself first. Oh come on! All those whiny social media posts about how life sucks and how you're sacrificing alot just for the sake of this so-called passion for the profession that you chose? I mean, seriously? Grow up kid! Begging for sympathy, for something that is supposedly a part of the life path you chose, is not on the list of how real mature people handle their problems. They know that it's part of life and they accept it for what it is. A challenge. A way to make themselves a better person. And they do something about it. They act on it. They don't just whine around and wait for other people to fix it for them, or worse, to expect other people to understand all their sorrows all-the-freakin-time.
So to end this supposedly short rant of mine, I'm not mad at you. I'm mad at what you did. In the end, I just feel a little bit sad because you betrayed the trust and friendship of a very nice person. I hope you'd soon learn your lessons before it gets too late. Here's to hoping and wishing you a good life.
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